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three things

Ben Hoyer - Wednesday, October 28, 2009
1. I'm working on a bible study that goes with psalm 37:4. This is cool_God will give you the desires of your heart. As we learn to live like Jesus we find we have every thing we want. Scripture doesn't tell us to squash our desire, just to wait on the Lord to give it...I'm waiting for the fall weather. What are you waiting for?

2. Yesterday, as I waited at a light, the famous truck quit running. I was halfway home from downtown Orlando and not excited about pushing the bundle of joy. That's when a truck that ran fine drove up behind me and pushed me out of the intersection. I found out the gas gauge is less than accurate: apparently a quarter tank really means empty.

3. Since the pig turned out so well a couple months ago, I am trying to figure out how I can roast a turkey on a spit over a fire. I welcome suggestions.

Home on the Range

Paul Hoyer - Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Remember the old song that praises the peace and beauty of the wide-open spaces of the western U.S.? “Home, home on the range, where the deer and the antelope play.” My favorite line is what comes next …”Where seldom is heard a discouraging word.” What a great place the ‘range’ must be!

Unfortunately, this wonderful place where discouraging words are seldom heard is increasingly difficult to find. Much more common are places and situations where discouraging words are the norm. Perhaps fueled by the increase in negative media stories, talk shows, instant ability to post and access opinions, and polarizing politics, our quest often seems to be to do our best to discourage others, especially those in leadership positions.

The effect of the increasing presence of discouraging words on us individually and collectively is cause for concern. Each of us knows all too well how demoralizing and damaging it is to be on the receiving end of discouraging words. And, as words of discouragement are so present around us, how easy it becomes to jump on the discouragement bandwagon by criticizing others!

While it is disappointing to observe and experience this atmosphere of discouragement, we as a Christian community have a great opportunity to create a counter-culture of encouragement! We can draw from the example of Barnabus (son of encouragement), whose ministry specialty as cited often in the New Testament was encouraging others. What if Holy Cross Lutheran Ministries congregations, our church schools, the agencies of the church became “discouragement free-zones,” known in our community as a place where people are affirmed along their life and faith journey and never discouraged by the sting of words, actions, and attitudes meant to bring harm to body, mind, or spirit? Then we would truely be living loving and learning together.

I got the idea for this blog from Rich, Thanks!

adventure and a lion

Ben Hoyer - Monday, October 26, 2009
I've been reading Wesley the Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe before bed. Some nights he's more into it than others. Last night we got to a part where the Lion and the oldest boy are standing at an overlook and they can see much of the land down to the ocean on the horizon. C.S. Lewis is a good descriptive writer and he describes how beautiful the land is as the sun sets the clouds and rolling hills change colors. Then the Lion (a God figure in this children's story) tells the oldest boy that he is going to be king of all he can see, and that just on the horizon is an ancient throne on which he'll sit. It's the position he was born for and it has been waiting for him. It sounded pretty adventurous for a kids story.

I pray for Wesley as I put him to bed, and last night (having just read about that adventure) I prayed that God would give Wesley courage to view life as that sort of adventure. One where there is opportunity to make a difference in the world, where a significant calling has been laid upon his life. One where there is a sense of duty and honor about the act of living. 

It's hard sometimes to look at life that way, when everything else says our life banal and boring: all work and t.v. It takes faith to believe there is something significant and adventurous about my life, and it takes courage on top of faith to pursue that adventure. Father...give me more faith...then also courage

the sunrise

Ben Hoyer - Wednesday, October 21, 2009
So the little girl had one of the best nights of her young life last night! It's amazing how one less interruption to the nights sleep can make the whole day feel a little more hopeful. I got up a little earlier this morning than I have been; sat in the dark, drank coffee, ate eggs and watched the sunrise out the picture window in our house. I looked up and the light blue/grey sky was turning pink then orange then yelllow. I feel like anything could happen today!

Down But Not Out

Paul Hoyer - Tuesday, October 20, 2009

In Boxing there is a phrase "Down but not out!" This refers to when a boxer is knocked down but he is not knocked out. That means that he can still get up again and may even still win. The other phrase that is used is, "It is not how many times you get knocked down that counts, but how many times you get up!"

 It kind of a sad time for us all, because the economic news continues to not be good. Although the paper and newscasters say that we have bottomed out and I read the Orlando Business Journal today that said we have been improving for the last 4 months (translated that means that each month we were a little less behind than we were in April). Yet daily someone else brings in a resume and asks me to be on the look out for them as they have lost their job. We have people who are losing their homes and families where both have lost jobs and business owners that have had to lay off 85% of their workforce. There are people getting divorces and people working for much less than they are worth. There are young people who have graduated and can not find a job in their field and youth who planned on college that have had to put it off!

Without a doubt we have been knocked down! But for those of us who know that the Lord is still in control, we are not out! When things are being taken away in our lives we have the tendency to dwell on what we have "lost" rather than to look at what we still have. Everything that we have is a blessing from God, a gift if you will, so who are we to cry that we might not have all that we did a couple of years ago? One of the Old Testament Prophets said "Is the arm of God too short to reach you with His gifts?

We have a great God who is able to do even more that we can ask, so we should not dispair, our God is still in Control!!!!

America and the Kingdom

Ben Hoyer - Monday, October 19, 2009
On the way in to work this morning I listened to a podcast that was recapping how our economy got into the sort of trouble that has resulted in the almost 10% unemployment rate. They were talking about America's situation in this global economy. They sounded a little worried.
Yesterday I had a conversation with a guy that has worked most of his career in and around government programs. We talked a for a while about the future of America's economy. We mentioned debt to other countries, and the collapse of manufacturing, sort of landing on...America doesn't produce anything. What happens to an economy built on consumption? He wasn't pessimistic, but he sounded a little worried.
Six or eight days ago I was with a friend who was talking to me about this pundit he listens too. The pundit was more than a little worried. He's watching the value of the American dollar go down and is afraid that the future for America could be gloomy. 

Yesterday I mentioned briefly that we are citizens of the Kingdom of God before we are even Americans. It was just a short point Sunday, but it is a big deal for me. I've come to realize that my first citizenship is in this Kingdom that stretches back to Adam and forward for eternity. I have a king that is infinitely concerned about my welfare. I happen to live in America, but this country has a different idea about justice, about generosity, about economy even. I don't know what's going to happen to this country, but I do know what's going to happen to my King and his Kingdom...it never ends. It's comforting; I hope America works it out-but that's not where my hope is.

thirteen dollars!

Ben Hoyer - Tuesday, October 13, 2009
There was mild outrage in the office at the church yesterday as folks logged on to our new credo coffee page and exclaimed thirteen dollars for coffee? (they misread the page, the coffee is $8, if it needs to be shipped there is a $5 charge). As I was fielding their concern I realized...I've been thinking about money a lot lately.

It is all over the place and affects us all. I just had a phone conversation with a guy at his whits end, without work and staring down eviction. I spoke with some friends this weekend about being laid off, others about their job sending them out of the state, others about working a job that feels like it's killing them just for that paycheck. I have a friend working jobs on the weekend and losing the family time he wants so he can earn more money, one who is investing as much as he can in his future business, and one whose business is just taking off and he wants to know the best place to invest. Money is all over, and has its hand in everything so this may sound funny, but: money is a serious distraction.

It's not the point. Money is not the point of your life. It may be easy to agree with that, but it's harder to live like it's true. It's hard to avoid living like money is the point of our lives. I think that's why Jesus spoke about money so much. He knew that it had the possibility of being our biggest distraction. 

See Jesus

Paul Hoyer - Saturday, October 10, 2009

Today I am in Mt. Dora at the Food Pantry and the place is full to overflowing! We are now helping almost 80 families per week. The volunteers here help in any way that they can. They try to find places to stay for those who are homeless and get people signed up for food stamps as well as sending them home with food for three weeks.

As I listen to the conversations this morning I am struck by the appreciation that those who are being helped have for the little bit of food that they receive. They continue to say "thank you" to everyone that they see. I had the opportunity to speak to the group of 25 volunteers as we finished this morning I told them that they have been Jesus to each person that came this morning. We are the arms and hands of Jesus, we give out the love that God has given to us in Jesus. When they see us, they see Jesus.

Why not be Jesus to the people around you today?

 

What Makes a Team

Paul Hoyer - Wednesday, October 07, 2009

Holy Cross has just passed 25 years and we are positioned for reaching the community for the next 25 years. The future will look much different with the loss of Bob Ducat as the worship director. As with many companies when the leadership team is broken up there will be a possibility of a slowing in forward movement, but there is also the chance that the change can help trigger that forward motion.

Our prayer is that God is going to push us forward to reach even more people with a reworked leadership team. There have been questions about how we will proceed. I want to keep you informed on our progress. We will continue to bring excellence to our worship with some of the singers from Holy Cross and we intend to bring in a great many guest leaders  until we find a good fit for us and our worship. We plan to work with a part time person for the next three months or so and after Christmas we will be ready to choose another full time Worship Director.

Through out this process we covet your prayers on this matter. We truely want the Lord's leadership in this search process. If you have positive, helpful, thoughts on this search please contact me at paul@hclm.org.

whew!

Ben Hoyer - Monday, October 05, 2009
Whew! I don't know about you, but I had a busy weekend. Definitely over-booked the two days. Golf, Octoberfest, Preach the Word of God, Wings and College football, preach the Word of God some more, nap, celebrate nuptuals, and fall asleep in front of NFL. If you add in a couple bottle feedings a date with my wife on Friday Night and a couple book readings with an almost 2 year old, then you're starting to get a picture of what I'm talking about. I was sitting here, running through it in my head and thinking, "Was that too much?" Ok. it probably was, but I'd rather have that than the opposite. Not that I don't like alone time, I just really value having friends to enjoy life with. I like having casual friends, and ones that really know me and feel like family.
It made me remember a conversation that Chris and I recorded several months ago. We called it King of Queens, because we realized that although it feels easier, sitting at home and watching reruns doesn't make us happy.